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Similarly, it’s always hard to remember that I do not have to settle, that I am entitled to my happy ending just as much as the next girl, whatever size she may be.
No law says I have to lower my standards, even though sometimes a guy will make me feel like I do. I’ll never forget the time a friend implied that I should “keep to my own.” Since I am heavy, I guess I need to date a heavy guy. I'm not allowed to be attracted to Chris Evans because he's fit.
And then I suddenly found myself afraid to publish it so it's been in a folder for a few months.
I don't know why, but I finally felt like sharing it.
On a more personal level, I’ve found that oftentimes, men can be cruel.
Some of them are just out there for everyone to see.
A skinny guy would never be attracted to a fat girl. To be clear, I’ve dated guys of all shapes and sizes.
In addition to passing judgment, people make assumptions about what I like, how I feel, and what I eat.
It’s always strange and amusing when a man is shocked to learn that I’m successful in my career, drive a new car, live in a nice home, etc.
As if my being plus sized has somehow earmarked me for failure in life across the board.